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I'm an "Urban Cougar". Thank you bloggy momma for pointing that out to me. I feel liberated, nay...empowered.

"urbancougar: it's not a stigma, it's a sophisticated species of female who seeks the pleasure of younger males. She avoids the entanglements of a "relationship," in favor of the freedom of the hunt.

She has overcome the taboos related to her sexual identity, embraced her true self, and now lives her life to its fullest. Always one for adventure, she knows what she wants and isn't afraid to get it!"


I'd say that's a pretty accurate summation of my attitude, and propensity for actively seeking out young, hard-bodies for "dalliance" purposes.

I'm no slut about it. You will NEVER finds me heavily made-up, slinking 'round singles bars, laying in wait. However, if given the choice, in a social setting, I WILL stalk, predatorily, a young stud as opposed to a middle-aged quarry.
And, why wouldn't/ shouldn't I?!

I LIKE men in their late 20's, early 30's. I LIKE strong, rippled, toned bodies. I LIKE stamina, "staying power". I have a particular affinity for men in uniform (and OUT of said uniform). Testosterone oozing, Alpha males make me weak in the knees.

There has long existed a (mostly unspoken) double standard that it's perfectly acceptable for an older male to seek out, date, conquer, copulate with younger, lithe femmes, but an older woman dipping her toes into that "He-ing and She-ing Pond For Younger Lovers"? Mais non, ma femme!

I've been out, on dates, with younger men. I've seen the stares, heard the snickers. Bothers me not. If the truth be known, envy rears it's ugly head. Pompous? Maybe, but again, it bothers me not.

No misuderstanding, please. I DO like older men. As a matter of fact, ALL of my "relationships" were with men older than I. But, for the occasional "romp", I'll take the youngster EVERY time.

My friend, Sgt. X. is out in the field, at Ft. ****, playing "war games", dressed as a naughty Iraqi. He called me earlier, the sound of helos overhead.

"I'll be done, probably on the 19th, and was thinkin' 'bout heading your way. You know, to deliver the promised "gear", etc...".

"Etcetera", indeed.

I'm an "Urban Cougar". Hear me purrrrrrr.